Have you ever been betrayed to such an extent that you want to slash tyres, spray paint the car and put a billboard on the N1 about the betrayer? Or have you betrayed someone that they wished for a earthquake to hit your house at the magnitude that exceeds the levels on the Ritcher scale?
Betrayal is bad and can sometimes cause irreparable harm. It is because it is negative by design that we don’t always look at the greater good that does and can come from a betrayal.
Some of you have been betrayed out of jobs you should have long left because they were stopping you from being present at home, present within yourself and obedient to your calling.
I am sure some of you are grateful for being betrayed out of relationships that were toxic and you sit there wishing your betrayer well because they are the sacrificial lamb that took your place. You now look at them with a “yeses what took you so long” kind of vibe.
Betrayal is meant to make you stronger because you have either survived it and are still alive to talk about it; or you are recovering from it because you can at the least, wake up and brush your teeth.
Betrayal is meant to make you treat others well because you have been inside every store in the shopping mall of pain.
Betrayal is a powerful turning point, you can walk forward and away from it, and go on to live your best life or you can get stuck with its details and spend the rest of your life glorifying misery by putting your betrayer and betrayal on a pedestal.
That said, betrayal doesn’t always come from the outside; make time to introspect about how you are constantly betraying yourself out of your health, your goals and great relationships 🌻