Have you ever wondered why you are always the one that your circle comes to for help?
Before you complain like my one friend did disturbing my sleep this morning… and I am sure we are many who have been there.
People come to you because you are DEPENDABLE. When you take the assignment, you do it well and when you help, you do so wholeheartedly.
You are also convenient and always in formation and like a tree, always at the same place emotionally and spiritually.
You can be trusted to fetch the drunk crew because no matter when, you will always be found sober. You are the one they always ask for financial help because you are responsible; you are always the one they ask for advice, because you always listen.
They don’t invite you to parties or crazy times because you like focus and can’t stand chaos. They don’t share with you because you are always content.
They use me you may say…but use always has a positive outcome. It is your job to make sure they don’t misuse or abuse you by setting boundaries and always helping or being available within your stamina level.
To all the dependable people 🥂